I don't usually pass around links to speeches or videos, but I think this would be similar to what I would say to h.s. and college graduates if I was a better writer & speaker and it's a way of thinking that I've worked on since before my injuries.
David Foster Wallace 2005 commencement address
If you don't need the visuals, here's the full speech
I'd love to read or hear your comments on this (Even if you think he's an idiot)
I was not familiar with the speech or the speaker, but I think at that moment he "got it".
The strange thing is that he reportedly suffered from depression for most of his life and hanged himself at 46 yrs old - only 3 yrs after giving this speech.
I'm grateful that my default setting is much different than his, but I constantly work to stay aware.